What I do:
Intense, erotic and creative bondage is my main interest. The aesthetics are important to me but making a real connection with a sub is what really turns me on. Good bondage should be dynamic, a performance, using pace and flow to build sexual intensity, varying positions and taking the sub on a journey into the unknown.
The ambience and flavour of a scene can vary a lot between different subs and their idiosyncrasies. Sometimes the scene is passionate, gentle, intimate and sensual; I love to caress and kiss a sexy man. On other occasions things can be much harder and rougher, making a sub feel helpless, perhaps using additional things like flogging, cp, electro, wax, tt, cbt, bc, ws, ff. Best of all I like to mix the two approaches together.

I play safely and sanely and want both sides to have a great experience. I want a sub to give up control but to do so comfortably in the knowledge that their limits are respected. My preference is to build up a relationship with a sub over repeated play.
Flexible as I am, there are a number of things that normally do not work for me. I am not a Master; I do not want to own you, keep you in chastity or train you. I don't do role play or verbal play, so don't ask me to keep you prisoner or interrogate you. I also don't do sleazy, or chem sessions.

About me
The main profile pic is me modelling my own rope work. I am a professional, intelligent, cultured, quality, trustworthy and sane man. I don't mess people around and act with integrity; I expect the same in return. I will only 'cruise' you back if I might be interested in playing at some point or if I like your bondage work. I also only accept friend's requests from people I have met in person and normally played with.

I don't really like chatting online and only do so to build trust prior to meeting. I like to take my time so don't expect an instant response or for me to rush into a chatroom, and if I don't like the way you have messaged me I will not respond at all.



What I am looking for:
Ideally I am looking for regular meets with nice guys who attract me sexually and interest me intellectually.

I have a fair few regular subs who I like to play with and they take up most of my kink time. I do like to play with new people but am happy to wait for the right person to come along. I am not arrogant or an egotist but if you don't fit with my clearly defined preferences written below or look like the subs in my pictures don't be offended or upset if I say no.

I very rarely initiate new encounters so you will have to take the initiative.


Subs who have the following qualities normally do it for me:

slim/ toned/ muscular/athletic
young(ish)in body but mature in mind
smooth
intelligent, professional, successful
innocent boy next door or geeky or alternative types
honest, polite and reliable
responsive and sexually open
can communicate clearly about their likes

as opposed to subs who are these things which turn me off:
Fat
Geriatric
Trashy, sleazy, fuckpig, cuntboys
barebackers
fussy /nervy
unresponsive/corpse like
arrogant, selfish, rude
flakes and fantasists
those that think I am a dial-a-top
fake bloke talk -calling me m8, geezer etc
have empty profiles with no pics
communicate in 3 word messages
have long list of things they don't like
and not forgetting faceless, 30/40 somethings, who have let themselves go, flabby hairy belly, flaccid penis on show, with a boyfriend at home who fancy something more exciting.

My sub side:

I occasionally like to play sub or switch and can do it well. I obviously like bondage heavy scenes, but am open to a variety of different experiences. I also enjoy a fair amount of pain. I am not fussed about body type or age here; attitude and experience is more important. I am not looking, however, for someone with just a pair of handcuffs who is posturing as a master or someone wielding a baseball bat.